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If you have a question about your relationship that bothers you and you don’t know who to ask, the LINK has you covered. Ask Paarull at [email protected]!
Paarull, he hasn’t called me since our third date even though I’ve sent him a few texts. Should I still try?
Don’t get too caught up with him not calling back as he simply just could be busy. Just wait until he calls you honey and if it doesn’t happen within the next 10 days then moving on would be a good idea. The cyber world these days makes it hard to have relationships; I wish we could go back to the olden times. And always remember that there is plenty of fish in the sea!
Paarull, he says that he wants an open relationship and we should both date other people. I’m not comfortable with this; I’m a one man type of woman. What should I do?
Well, my theory is that if you’re not okay with something then just don’t do it. Just be honest with him and tell him how you feel. I always think that good communication is the remedy for many problems in life.
Paarull, my best friend hates my boyfriend and has been telling me to break-up with him. I love my boyfriend to bits and I can’t imagine breaking up with him. What should I do?
Don’t break up with him! Tell your best friend that you love him and love her too and if she’s a true friend then she will always be there for you. Love solves all problems I feel, show her love that you have for her and also show her how much you love him.
Apart from all the usual questions I received this week, I met a girl last week who told me her relationship situation, when I say “it’s complicated”, after hearing this, you would believe me.
This girl is in love with a married man who is very nice to her, treats her well, and wants a future with her. But he’s married! His marriage situation is also complicated. He married a woman who he wasn’t in love with and it was merely a paper marriage where they were both in a different country and her visa was about to expire so him being a good human being, helped her out. Then as time went on, he was going through a tough phase in his life and since she was there so he ended up just staying with her. He also had two children with this woman but they simply don’t get along with one another. This girl tells me that he doesn’t technically have a marriage as him and his “wife” are separated but live together so that he can still see his children. She’s verified that he is telling her the truth! He’s been open to her about everything and he truly cares for her. She’s also developed very strong feelings for him, her family is Ok with it as long as she’s happy. But she still can’t get herself to say “yes”, she wonders why?? Living in a society where marrying a married man may be frowned upon and even though we want to listen to our heart but sometimes we make decisions that make our society happy and not ourselves. I would love to hear what you all think about this situation, what should she do? Should she leave him and find someone that the society will agree with? What if she never finds someone like him again?
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