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By Paarull JS Bakshi
I Have Feelings For Someone At Work But I’m In A Relationship – What Should I Do?
Paarull,
I’ve started developing feelings for someone I work with and the problem is that I’m currently in a relationship with someone who I also love very much. I think I may just be confused but I really don’t know what I should do? Is it possible to like two people at the same time?
Yes, it’s very possible to have multiple interests at the same time as this is more common than you think. I think you should first see what it is you like about the man that you’re currently in a relationship with and then see if your feelings for this new man is something that you want to pursue. Feelings often develop as you get to know someone better and this is completely normal but sometimes it’s not worth losing someone else that has been there for you and still very much likes you. I hope this helps. Keep me posted. XOXO Paarull
Paarull,
There is a problem with my marriage and it’s not my husband or I but it’s my mother-in-law! She is constantly meddling into our business, has been bothering me to have children, and she even walks into our bedroom without knocking. I’m not used to this as I grew up in a household where we gave each other space. My husband loves his Mom and he really wants to live with his parents but I can’t continue going like this any longer. What should I do?
Well, I have to say that yes this is a tricky situation and I do agree with you that as a couple you need space. Parents sometimes don’t understand this and that causes trouble and misunderstandings. I would say that you have a conversation with your husband about the things that bother you about your living situation and if appropriate then talk to your mother-in-law and mention them. I must warn you that talking to your mother-in-law or confronting her may cause more trouble so please handle this carefully. I think mentioning boundaries, etc. would also be good and then eventually I hope that you can convince your husband to do what is best for you as a couple (living with his parents may also work!). XOXO Paarull
Paarull,
How long should I wait before sleeping with a guy I just started to date?
Well, my dear this really depends on how close you feel with this person and there is no time limit etc on this but I usually say about 3 months. But then again, 3 months may be too long for some people. If you want a long-term relationship then I would for sure say at least 3 months of dating him or until you are sure of his commitment to this relationship. XOXO Paarull
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