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By Paarull JS Bakshi
My Boyfriend Recently Got Married But Recently Spent A Weekend With Me – Should I Force Him To Get Divorce And Marry Me?
Relationships can either be a blessing or a curse. It really all depends on what side you see! I think that in a given day, there will be someone, somewhere who’s suffering from this thing we call “relationship problem(s)”. Why do we make things so complicated? Do they really have to be this way? Well, I think that as humans we sometimes get carried away by our emotions and decide things that end up either hurting us or making our lives very miserable.
Relationships don’t have to be so complicated! Remember to love the ones that truly care and hopefully that love is reciprocated. Believe in love and not all people are the same and if you didn’t find love at first, you must keep trying. Love is what makes the world go round. XOXO Paarull
Now to answer some of your questions from this week:
Dear Paarull,
My Boyfriend of 10 years has just told me that he’s in love with someone else. I mean how could this be? I’ve planned my life around this relationship and I planned to marry him next year. He’s been my life for so long that I wouldn’t know what to do if he’s no longer a part of it. He wants to end things and I just can’t seem to accept it. What should I do?
Well My Dear, I’m very sorry to hear about this situation as this is not something that anyone of us would ever predict or ever hope for. My suggestion to you would be to just get yourself to move on as relationships happen when two are in agreement and since your partner has decided to separate ways then there is really not much that you could do about it. Being bitter over a situation like this is natural but it only hurts us and no other. Eventhough, your situation is very tough and it may be extremely difficult for you to do this but the best thing for you to do is just re-arrange your life so that it no longer includes your boyfriend. I know it’s easier said than done but have faith and move on darling! XOXO Paarull
Dear Paarull,
My boyfriend has recently gotten married to someone else. This only happened because of a misunderstanding between us but he still loves me and I know it. We still talk every day and we even spent a weekend together last month. Should I force him to divorce his wife and marry me?
Darling, I understand where you are coming from but in my opinion, if he agreed to marry some other girl when you and him had a simple misunderstanding then is he really all that worth waiting for? I would say No! Firstly, he shouldn’t have married another girl if he loved you and now he shouldn’t be keeping you hanging and promising you things that may or may not happen. My suggestion to you would be to move on. There’s plenty of fish in the sea! XOXO Paarull
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