Ask Paarull!
By Paarull Bakshi
If you have a question about your relationship that bothers you and you don’t know who to ask, the LINK has you covered. Ask Paarull at [email protected]!
Dear Readers,
Thank you for connecting with me this year! It was a pleasure answering all of your wonderful questions and I look forward to answering many more in the year 2015.
Now to our regular column:
Dear Paarull,
It’s the end of the year and I just want to come to a decision with myself and be done with this relationship that I have. It seems that it is going nowhere and I think that it’s about time I end it. He was very nice to me in the beginning but now everything is just falling apart and I have no more patience to deal with his behavior. He goes to work and comes home late and doesn’t talk to me when he comes home, this has been happening for more than a year now. He’s also not sleeping in our bedroom any longer. I’ve tried asking him what’s wrong but seriously now this is too much! Do you think it’s ok if I make a decision and end this marriage?
Oh my dear, I think in your situation. The decision that you’ve made is right and you shouldn’t have to deal with such behavior without any reason. I think that life is short and we shouldn’t waste it on things we don’t want to do or in relationships that don’t serve their purpose any longer. Do what’s best for you!
Dear Paarull,
My life has been weird lately and I don’t know whether its because of my boyfriend or me? I’ve been spending a lot of time with him and that’s probably the reason as to why I’m feeling like my life isn’t going anywhere. I used to be a social person but of late, its been weird and I haven’t been able to hang out with any of my friends as I spend too much time with him and most of my friends have also left me now. This is not constructive and I feel very trapped by this relationship, should I end it?
Honey, I think you should have a chat with your boyfriend about this and tell him how you feel. I feel conversation is just so important in any relationship and having good communication is key. Also you must remember that things do change when you are in a relationship, it is now a part of your life and you should learn with work with your relationship and your social life. There should be a balance among the two. I think you can work this out honey! Keep me posted! xoxo Paarull
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