Ask Paarull!
By Paarull Bakshi
If you have a question about your relationship that bothers you and you don’t know who to ask, the LINK has you covered. Ask Paarull at [email protected]!
Sometimes we wonder why some people that we date are a little odd in the way that they act around us? Do they treat you not like a lover or boyfriend or girlfriend? This could really be because this person may just not be so into you!
Some ways you can tell:
• If he/she doesn’t call very often to see how you’re doing without reason
• If he/she doesn’t particularly take time out of their busy schedule to come see you
• If he/she doesn’t hang out with you at parties or attends parties alone
• If he/she doesn’t talk about long-term plans with you
• If he/she mentions to you that they like someone else
• If he/she mentions to you that you two are very different people
• If he/she doesn’t find your jokes funny (if they like you then they find anything you do funny or cute)
• If he/she doesn’t help you do small things for you
• If he/she doesn’t remember little things about you , your likes or dislikes
• If he/she doesn’t want to plan out certain things
• If he/she rarely ever compliments you
• If he/she doesn’t make an effort to come see you
• If he/she makes you feel bad about yourself
If some of these things are happening to you in your “relationship” then I would definitely re- consider a few things! Pay attention to the details when you’re with someone and you will be able to tell if this person is even worth your time. In all reality, not everyone you meet or date will be the right one and they may just “like” you but “loving” someone is a whole another thing and way of living.
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XOXO Paarull
