Are Matches Really Made In Heaven?

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By Paarull Bakshi

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They say that matches are made in heaven then why do we go look for them? Why do we always wonder who we’re going to end up with or spend our lives with? Why are we always looking when single and sometimes not content when with someone?

I think that as humans, we all need change or our lives can become rather boring and uneventful which can further cause us to do things that we don’t really want or should. Change is important and we must keep changing with time as this makes our lives more worthwhile and exciting. Also I certainly believe that ‘matches’ or ‘pairing’, whatever we may call them, come into our lives for a reason and meet the people we meet for a reason. We should be happy and content with a person that makes us feel complete and avoid temptations as temptations are just temporary and are usually not long lasting. In my opinion, qualities of a good partner are:

Someone who understands you

Someone you watches your back

Someone who cares about you

Someone who shows affection

Someone who you can spend hours with

Someone who makes you laugh and smile often

Someone you can’t be mad at for long

Someone you often miss

Someone you feel comfortable with

Someone you can trust

Someone that makes you feel good

If you feel this way about someone then consider them a good match for you! Good people are hard to come by and if you’re lucky enough to come across them then you should definitely find a way to keep them around.

XOXO Paarull

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