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6 Questions from 6 strangers……

  1. I’m A 30-Year-Old Virgin Who’s Never Even Been Kissed, What Should I Do?

Dear Paarull

My name is Emma and I’m 30 and I’ve never had a boyfriend or even been kissed and I’m obviously a virgin BUT I’ve recently met someone who I’m very much attracted to.  He wants to sleep with me but I’m so scared as I don’t want him to know that I’m a virgin. What should I do?

Dear Emma,

Please don’t feel bad about yourself and trust me that this is more common than you think. Girls and women nowadays wait until the time is right. Also, let me tell you something:  if you are really into this man that you are dating then sleeping with him will be a gradual process and it will be very natural so just take it easy and don’t focus on it. Men generally tend to not care about such things and us women just overthink everything. XOXOXO

  1. He hasn’t called me since our third date even though I’ve sent him a few texts. Should I still try?

Don’t get too caught up with him not calling back as he simply just could be busy. Just wait until he calls you honey and if it doesn’t happen within the next 10 days then moving on would be a good idea. The cyber world these days makes it hard to have relationships; I wish we could go back to the olden times. And always remember that there is plenty of fish in the sea!

  1. He says that he wants an open relationship and we should both date other people. I’m not comfortable with this; I’m a one man type of woman. What should I do?

Well, my theory is that if you’re not okay with something then just don’t do it. Just be honest with him and tell him how you feel. I always think that good communication is the remedy for many problems in life.

  1. He hates my hair color but I absolutely love it. Should I change?

No, you should keep it if you love it! Be yourself , alwaysJ xoxo

  1. He lied to me about his age and I’ve just found out that he’s 10 years older than he told me he was. I’m not okay with this at all, what should I do?

Usually, I say that age is nothing but a number but in your case, he shouldn’t have lied to you.  You should really ask yourself if you like/love him enough to look over this factor. If the answer is yes then please don’t let this come in between you. Lies can sometimes hurt us but at other times they help us. If he hadn’t lied to you, you would never get to know him and you would never find out what it’s like to be with someone like him. At the end, all that matters is LOVEJ

  1. My best friend hates my boyfriend and has been telling me to break-up with him. I love my boy friend to bits and I can’t imagine breaking up with him. What should I do?

Don’t break up with him! Tell your best friend that you love him and love her too and if she’s a true friend then she will always be there for you. Love solves all problems I feel, show her love that you have for her and also show her how much you love him.

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