By Paarull Bakshi
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With LOVE also comes ATTACHMENT, it is the very thing which just keeps us afraid and anxious. Our attachment to our loved one, in a way just binds us and keeps us holding onto them even when we know that this attachment is harmful. Sometimes we humans become so attached to another being that without them, we feel helpless and somewhat hampered by it. This itself isn’t good as when human beings become so dependent on one person, it is hard for us to achieve our utmost potential or complete whatever it is that our soul was born to do in this lifetime. As I mentioned last week, our soul’s only purpose is to gain Moksha, to be released. If this doesn’t happen, we suffer on this planet as never are at peace.
When we are walking on our PURPOSE, we will feel entirely at peace and this is a proven phenomenon. Any time, humans are unrested, it is because either they are not walking on their PURPOSE or they are just dealing with their ‘Karma’ wither from this life or their past life.
Coming back to attachments, our love for one another makes us be attached to a certain person and in turn this attachment makes us walk away from our path because now our attachment to this person is higher than our purpose. Our purpose has perhaps lost its meaning. Again, it is the love that binds us and hinders us but it’s not really a bad thing, it’s a good feeling as long as it has its boundaries which don’t conflict with your soul’s purpose.
There are also two types of people as some can manage LOVE and the purpose without being ‘attached’ but then the other type of people probably won’t be able to do the same as they have no clear direction of their purpose and now with an added attachment, it’s even harder to finish what you are here to do. Therefore Suffering occurs!
You all are probably wondering why this Love/Relationship columnist wants to write about the soul and its purpose? Well to be honest, if we don’t fix ourselves inside or have a clear direction of where it is that we want to go then we are not really able to love or be loved.
Stay tuned for a LOVE TAROT in the next coming weeks!
XOXO Paarull
Paarull Bakshi is a marketing consultant at Brand D Media (www.branddmedia.ca). If you have a relationship question that you’d like to share then – Ask Paarull at [email protected]! If you are looking for PR, Media Relations. Branding, Event Planning and Digital Marketing Services, Paarull can be reached at [email protected].
