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By Paarull Bakshi
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As I talked on Attachments last time, this time I thought that it would be a good idea to go over why it is that we want the feeling of love? I received an email from someone who confessed to me that she is a middle aged lady that has been single forever and that she never dated or married anyone. She is 53 years of age and has never felt the touch of another person and because that she’s been void of it for so long, it is something that she can never miss. If you’ve never had something then you can’t really miss it, can you? She also mentioned that she knows what love is as she feels love for her family and friends but that kind of love isn’t really quite the same now is it? Hmm something for everyone to think about!
Now looking at some questions that I received:
Paarull,
My mother-in-law really doesn’t like me and is hell bent on getting me divorced from my husband and so much so that its unbearable for me to be living with them. What should I do? I think its easier for me to just get divorced even though it’s not what I really want to do.
I think you should talk to your husband about this and don’t think of leaving because of a third person. Third person meddling is very common and there are ways of dealing with it. I know easier said than done but still you have to be strong!
Another cheater…
I met this girl who is just so full of life and loves how she is in every single way. She met a man who is nothing but a cheater or a liar. A pathological liar as you can call it. He not only was involved with her but with so many around the world through the modem of Facebook, WhatsApp and what have you! what a way to be for a man that is just so full of lies. He was talking to so many of them on a daily basis that it is just so confusing as to what this man gets out of it. Almost every girl gets a similar message such as “ I want to do so many things to you” , “I want to take care of you”, all just bullish and utter lies. What could he possibly get out of doing this?
Well to me, such a person is full of low self-esteem and is never satisfied, no matter what you do. Such men or women are also at times lonely beings and are always finding for some comfort from others but they also seem to be the kind who give up pretty easily. They move from one to the other all the time as their void never seems to be filled at all. These people can be pretty easily recognised as they have a very short attention span and most of the tome they hide things from you. because they are so used to lying that now even they believe in their lies and their lies have become the truth to some extent.
Keep searching for love! XOXO Paarull
Paarull Bakshi is a marketing consultant at Brand D Media (www.branddmedia.ca). If you have a relationship question that you’d like to share then – Ask Paarull at [email protected]! If you are looking for PR, Media Relations. Branding, Event Planning and Digital Marketing Services, Paarull can be reached at [email protected].
