Grieving Surrey Family appeals to Parents to have Open Dialogues on Internet Safety with Their Teens

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It has been almost one year since we lost our son. He loved hockey and he loved life. Not a day goes by that we don’t miss him. He was an innocent child who was taken advantage of due to his innocence.
As we grieve the loss of our son, we want other parents to know this could happen to anyone. Talk to your kids about Internet Safety and keep the door to communication open so they can come to you for help.
It brings us some comfort to know the person responsible is being held accountable. We hope this does not happen to another child.
SURREY: The family of a young Surrey hockey player, who committed suicide last year, is appealing to parents to have an open dialogue with their kids about internet safety.
The 14-year-old Robin Janjua became a victim of financial sextortion and took his life last year in February when someone tricked him into sending his intimate images and then blackmailing him with threats to share his images with his family.
On February 13, 2023, Surrey RCMP frontline officers responded to a report of a sudden death of a male youth at a residence. Although police did not name the victim, messages from the hockey communities across Lower Mainland poured in mourning the death of a young rising star Robin Janjua who played on Delta Hockey Academy’s U15 Green team.
At the time of Robin’s death sextortion was suspected as the reason behind his death. Surrey RCMP announced this week in a news conference that a man in Nigeria has been arrested and charged in the case following a lengthy, international investigation. Police did not name the victim, but shared a picture of Robin during the conference.
The police informed that Surrey RCMP Serious Crime Unit took the conduct of this investigation named Project Epa last year.
Investigators collected credible evidence indicating the youth had been tricked into sending explicit photos to a suspect online who posed as a teenage girl. The suspect then blackmailed the youth with threats to share the photos with his family and friends unless he complied with demands of purchasing gift cards and sending them to the suspect.
In May 2023, Surrey RCMP investigators identified two suspects involved and determined they were operating in Nigeria. Surrey RCMP joined forces with domestic and international law enforcement partners to investigate Project Epa and provide assistance on a larger-scale, international police operation, targeting financial sextortion suspects in Nigeria. With assistance from Nigerian law agency, Surrey RCMP arrested two men.
One of the men was released without charges and the other Adedayo Olukeye, 26, is being held in custody awaiting trial in Nigeria on charges including possession and distribution of child pornography, attempts at extortion by threats, money laundering, and retention of proceeds of an unlawful act.
The police said in the conference that financial sextortion is a global crisis, heavily impacting youth in Canada and around the world.
A heart-wrenching statement from the youth’s family was also read aloud to send the message across. “As we grieve the loss of our son, we want other parents to know this could happen to anyone. Talk to your kids about Internet Safety and keep the door to communication open so they can come to you for help.
It brings us some comfort to know the person responsible is being held accountable. We hope this does not happen to another child. We want to thank the Surrey RCMP who has provided us with support and kept us apprised of what was going on throughout the investigation.”
Our message to youth – you are not alone and there is life after images, said Sergeant Dave Knight of the Surrey RCMP Special Victims Unit. It is important to know that you will not be in trouble with the police and you are not the one to blame in this situation.
Our message to parents – talk to your kids about sextortion and teach them how to be safe online including what to do if they have been targeted and they have shared explicit images. We all wish to protect our kids and everyone has a role to play. Learn about the signs of extortion and learn how to help youth not become victims to it, added Sgt. Knight.
Financial sextortion is a global crisis, heavily impacting youth in Canada and around the world.
“Our message to youth – you are not alone and there is life after images,” said Sergeant Dave Knight of the Surrey RCMP Special Victims Unit. “It is important to know that you will not be in trouble with the police and you are not the one to blame in this situation.”
“Our message to parents – talk to your kids about sextortion and teach them how to be safe online including what to do if they have been targeted and they have shared explicit images. We all wish to protect our kids and everyone has a role to play. Learn about the signs of extortion and learn how to help youth not become victims to it,” added Sgt. Knight.

FOR BOX
Financial Sextortion:
Financial sextortion is a type of online blackmail that is on the rise, and primarily targets boys. It involves asking a victim for sexual images or videos and then threatening to share them with others unless the victim pays the offender. Offenders pose as girls of a similar age and use fake accounts to target youth, deceiving them into sending explicit photos or videos. The offender then threatens to release the sexual materials unless the victim sends them money in the form of cash, crypto currency or gift cards. These offenders rely on threats and aggressive behaviour to get victims to send them what they want.
What to do if you are being financially sextorted:
Stop all communication with the offender;
Take a screen capture of the chat and the offender’s profile including username;
Do not delete your social media account or images;
If you sent images or videos, do not delete them;
Do not comply with threats, do not send money or more images;
Reach out to a trusted adult and report it to police.
If you need help, there are resources available to you:
Cybertip.ca provides information on staying safe online and how to report any concerns. You can provide your name and contact information, or complete the form anonymously.
How to make a claim about intimate images shared without your consent, Civil Resolution Tribunal Portal – BC Intimate Images Protection Act.
Cybertip.ca also manages Project Arachnid. This program helps victims have their images removed if they are shared publicly.
Don’t Get Sextorted has information on staying safe and getting help.
Need Help Now provides information on emotional support, reporting, helping a friend, and answering frequently asked questions.
Public Safety Canada provides youth, parents and caregivers with educational resources on Online Dangers, including sextortion.
Kids Help Phone can provide urgent support in terms of emotional support and steps on what to do next.
Canadians across the country can now call or text 9-8-8 for immediate and free mental health crisis support and suicide prevention intervention.
The Canadian Anti-Fraud Centre has sextortion resources available to the public.
The Department of Justice’s Victim Services Directory can provide information on resources in your community available to victims of online child sexual exploitation.