Ask Paarull!
If you have a question about your relationship that bothers you and you don’t know who to ask, the LINK has you covered. Ask Paarull at [email protected]!
Hello Readers! I hope you all had a good holiday season and I wish you all a very Happy New Year! May 2015 bring you all the LOVE you so very much deserve. Here are some questions I received at the end of last year which I couldn’t really answer:
Dear Paarull,
I’m dating an older man who is very nice to me and is very caring and genuine when it comes to taking care of me. He even wants a future with me, I do very much like him but I feel that it may not last or I may find someone else later and may end up regretting my decision all together. Do you think that I should end it based on assumptions of possible finding someone else?
Well, I think that life is short and we should take whatever chance we get. Sometimes we think what if blah blah blah happens…. But in reality, the present is all that exists! The guy you are with right now is the present and the future is unknown so therefore, I believe that you should keep dating this guy until things change for you! Don’t let someone go just because you hope that there is someone better! No matter what we do, there will always be someone better in some way or another XOXO Paarull
Dear Paarull,
I’m a little confused as to who I should be dating as I haven’t dated much in my life and things have just gone a little complicated as now there are two guys who like me very much. I kind of like them both, is that possible?
Well honey, just choose one and listen to your heart XOXO Paarull
Paarull,
How early is too early to sleep with someone I just started seeing?
It’s whenever you feel comfortable with it! It should be a mutual decision and one should not be forced into it by any means.
Paarull,
My boyfriend barely ever wants to hang out anymore and he’s been avoiding my calls and texts for the past two weeks! I don’t know what is going on. Maybe he’s cheating and found someone else but I really don’t know. What should I do?
Well if someone keeps bothering you for no apparent reason and is avoiding hanging out with you then you should definitely think about getting rid of this relationship. Call and tell him how you feel and then decide. Don’t ever waste time with someone who isn’t sure that they want that relationship. XOXO Paarull
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