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He made her a Princess along with many others…
I heard a heart wrenching story this weekend from a good friend of mine, here it goes:
She tells me a story of a guy she met whom she thought was her ‘prince charming’, actually turned out to be not what she expected. He wooed her and swept her off her feet and told her all these things that she just blindly believed. She wasn’t so sure when they first met that she could trust him and she knew in her heart, deep down inside that ‘something is just not right.’
We’ve all heard that saying “Listen to your Heart” , well sometimes we are so blinded by such situations that we don’t see or don’t want to see the reality. We want to believe in reality that isn’t necessarily true hoping that it would just make things a lot better or that their fake reality may just come true?
These things just happen without us knowing as we start believing the other person so much that it blinds us.
This is exactly what happened to this girl, as she kept believing his lies, his false promises that were never delivered, and mostly his feelings for her that were probably at this point ‘UNREAL.’ He said things to her like “you are my princess”, “you mean the world to me”, “I’ve never met anyone quite like you”, well cheaters cheaters! Hmm let’s see some common indications of these CHEATERS:
They are over polite and nice
They compliment you too much
If you question them, they have a way to put the blame back on you
They talk to multiple people at the same time
They often repeat their stories to put emphasis on them – this is their “Sales Pitch”
They never elaborate on stories about their exes or even if they do, they will tell you that their exes were crazy!
They use weird terms like Princess or the likes to overly deceive girls
They are pathological liars – if they lie about other things all the time and they can also lie to you!
They tell you sob stories about their past and how they were mistreated or hurt to gain your sympathy
They are just manipulative!
Back to the story then, so this girl finally finds out his true nature of this guy and realizes that he’s just another cheater who repeats the same stories to all girls and maybe at some point he meant them but maybe he didn’t?
I guess we will never know how some people think and lie and deceive! This is certainly not the norm but unfortunately some people don’t see that they can hurt other people by doing such things and making them feel horrible after.
But like I always say, never lose hope in finding true love and if this story resonated with you then this is a good sign that you are not alone! Just keep looking for that true and pure soul mate and I’m sure either you or he/she will find their way to you.
PS: just though that id let everyone reading know my reason behind writing this column, it’s because I also had an interesting ‘relationship story’ which led me to help others, I’m really overwhelmed with all the responses I get from you all. Thank you so much for all the love this past year!
Until next time, XOXO Paarull
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Paarull Bakshi is a marketing consultant at Brand D Media (www.branddmedia.ca). If you have a relationship question that you’d like to share then – Ask Paarull at [email protected]! If you are looking for PR, Media Relations. Branding, Event Planning and Digital Marketing Services, Paarull can be reached at 604-318-4913.
