When You Say “It’s Over”, Make Sure You Are Prepare To Carry It Through
It’s never easy to say and certainly not easy to hear the phrase that ‘It’s over!’ in a relationship but it is nonetheless a reality of this world. When there is GOOD , there must always be a little bit of BAD. There will always be that one person that will be the bearer of this news and sometimes becomes the ‘evil one’ in the relationship. In my opinion, it’s never easy to be the one to end things, so it takes a lot of courage to do such things.
How to deal with this you say? Let’s see…
Well, one can be realistic about things and just understand that it’s a part of any relationship and if things don’t go right then it’s bound to happen
It just happens….
It happened for the better
Maybe you are meant to meet someone who maybe a better fit for you
The relationship had no future
It gave you another chance
You didn’t want to do it so it’s better that someone else did
Life does go on and people do move on
There is always a reason why things are the way they are or they turned out the way they did
Destiny or the Universe has something more in store for you
I’ve seen people go from one break-up to another relationship and also from a break-up to being single for a while. Everyone deals with things differently and this is what makes us unique. There is no right or wrong to deal with a break-up as they just happen. We are humans and are very emotional beings and dealing with such things doesn’t always come easy but if we have the right people around us, it makes it just that much better.
So after the Break-Up , you should:
Tell your Mom
Tell your best friend
Do something that you find relaxing like a spa or a mini vacation maybe?
Learn to forgive them and yourself
End it on a good note
Tell them that ‘It’s OKAY!’
Life is short people, always remember that life does go on and there are a billion people in this world and you will meet another…
XOXO Paarull
Paarull Bakshi is a marketing consultant at Brand D Media (www.branddmedia.ca). If you have a relationship question that you’d like to share then – Ask Paarull at [email protected]!
