By Paarull Bakshi
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What does a relationship mean?
Sometimes I meet people and I learn so much. Just knowing that we’re all in the same boat, makes us feel so much better although that’s not really how we should decide what is okay and what’s not. Our world is changing and so are the people in it, it’s not what it used to be like, things have just changed and people have become different. Our thinking has opened up and we just have to accept certain things for what they are.
I used to think that things were “Happily Ever After” and in some cases they also might be but reality has just stuck me after all these years. Some relationships which I thought were perfect are really not and now I realize that things never really were perfect and in fact perfection in anything doesn’t exist. There is always some understanding and some adjustment that you have to make. It’s not easy but that’s what it takes! Relationships take work and we really have to work on our strengths and weaknesses to match those of our partners.
Some things that we should be aware of could be:
For LADIES:
If he’s not that into you then he’s just not – don’t push it
If he’s got a wandering eye and you’re not okay with it – let it go
If he treats you right and you think he’s not capable of cheating then just believe him – don’t question your belief – it can mess things up and also some things are better unknown…
At some point or another, your man may be tempted to cheat – I’m told that men are built like that
For MEN:
If she’s not into you then she’s not – don’t push it
If she’s promiscuous – then she will be like that and there’s nothing you can do about it
If she’s materialistic and wants you for your material goods – you will get bored of this relationship soon as she doesn’t really like you for who you really are
If she doubts you all the time – let it go – it’ll make your life a lot simpler
We can’t always blame men as sometimes it’s us women who make them do the things they do. It takes two as they say! To make your relationship work, work on it!
XOXO Paarull
Paarull Bakshi is a marketing consultant at Brand D Media (www.branddmedia.ca). If you have a relationship question that you’d like to share then – Ask Paarull at [email protected]! If you are looking for PR, Media Relations. Branding, Event Planning and Digital Marketing Services, Paarull can be reached at [email protected] or 604-318-4913.
